Then you are too young to have truly suffered from it, and I wonder what might have happened had I stayed away longer. [He says this plainly, and with a kind of firmness that is not uncommon for him. He does not avoid eye contact; his tone of voice does not turn softer to make the words easier on the ear.] You are very postured. You make your home in massive luxury, saturated in finery and color. You wear a face that is not your own. I must either wonder whether what lies beneath is something that shames you or whether what lies beneath is simply incomplete.