If you had not asked me already to see Judas, and I were to say "Iago: I have this task you are to do" and you were to say "I will not do it" and then I offered him as an incentive? Then that would be what you describe.
But that did not happen here. You said to me that you wish to see him, that you cannot abide being completely separated from him. If you are requesting something of me, then it is implied that you are asking "What must happen to make this possible?"
That is not dangling. That is negotiation. You want to be with Judas and you want not to be miserable. I want you to not be miserable but I also need to trust you and believe you are putting forward your best effort to settle again, and that you are busy and supervised for the time being.
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If you had not asked me already to see Judas, and I were to say "Iago: I have this task you are to do" and you were to say "I will not do it" and then I offered him as an incentive? Then that would be what you describe.
But that did not happen here. You said to me that you wish to see him, that you cannot abide being completely separated from him. If you are requesting something of me, then it is implied that you are asking "What must happen to make this possible?"
That is not dangling. That is negotiation. You want to be with Judas and you want not to be miserable. I want you to not be miserable but I also need to trust you and believe you are putting forward your best effort to settle again, and that you are busy and supervised for the time being.
Does this not serve the both of us?